Marriage it is an agreement
of between the man and woman as husband and wife that requires proper
commitment of each individual. Marriage is also a contract between persons that
is distinguished by religious tradition and cultural practice.
Nowadays marriage is easy to
make it happen because actually anyone with the position in the community
especially in the government has the right to be engaged in civil marriage.
Like for instance, town mayor he/she implement civil marriage. It is usual for
judges to do this activity and this is really their job. It has a lot of
beneficiaries or advantages in choosing civil marriage.
1. Costs are cheap. If you are a type of a person who has priorities
instead of spending only in marriage but you divert it to much more important
like buying lots for instance. More of the case if you engage in civil marriage
only the important people can attend like the witnesses, parents of the wife
and husband so costs is less. Whereas church or when held in crowded
celebration you will pay the costs in venues or the reception where your
visitors can eat, the food, drinks, wedding dress, souvenirs, cakes and many
more extra costs. In addition to costs, like paying church fees ( priest,
lights, choir and etc.), decoration at church, decorations in the reception
venue, the documents that requires in the church are too many and it is very
costly, Seminars too many in church wedding. After the marriage instead of
being happy the condition will be different it turns to frustration due to huge
costs that you bear will pull you down. On the other side, before deciding to
spend enormous amount it is better to plan ahead of time and save a lot of
money that will not affect your income. And set percentage savings for the
marriage. This will be more light way to prevent depression.
2. Process
of paper requirements is abrupt and manageable. If both parties of the
individuals are single, you get married one week before the completion of the requirements.
Unlike, those who experienced marriage before it is a little bit complicated
because it’s need to settle the previous union before entering the new
marriage. Further to that complication, still civil marriage is recommended to
prefer.
3. No Seminars at all. This is an advantage to those who engage in day
job. In seminars demand time and if the event happens on working days the work
will behind. Time is wasted and the income of the day will perish.
In the church marriage it is
mysterious but special ceremony and a very conservative and it is cherished by
old generation/creation. This way of marriage is based on formalities but it is
actually depends on what is the person’s point of view.
In other way of concept, every
individual can hold formal ceremonies because they also measure their comfort
zone, the special place and how it blends the style of the ceremony.
In church marriage, some
people might say there is a big blessing because the priest is the instrument
of God the father’s consecration. Another is, Self Pride- the church is a large
place to walk down the aisle so; it is in the mind and the perception of a person
that church wedding is great. It satisfies the total self individual happiness
and fulfillment. To choose in church marriage, it manifests the religion and to
furnish high value to more religious people and them appreciate it because they
believe from the bottom of their hearts. Lastly, it is very important to give high
gratitude of culture and tradition and of what tribe you belong to maintain the
group or the members of the family’s peacefulness and satisfaction, but still it’s
always have the balance in implementing to those traditions in choosing what is
right and wrong. Marriage is an important instrument, to measure faithfulness,
commitment, responsibility and leadership in building a new family in the
community as a wife and a husband rule.
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