God always reminds us with these
words of saying; love your neighbors, family and friends as you love yourself. God
didn’t say love your money as you love yourself.
It is quite difficult to spend
some of your time to talk with your family member because you are too busy to
work and sometimes you forgot to eat meals together with your family.
Reasons why a person is
hard to give love and to be love;
Live in modern world
technology
In today’s generation we
live in a modern technology. Unlike before people were so happy to work at
their farm and helping each other to harvest the food. During at night,
neighbors were playing guitars and drinking native drink from coconut tree. It
is so much fun to remember an old time.
Compared today, people are
too busy with their iPAD, cell phones, play online games and watch television
shows. Even during, meal time iPad and cell phones is in the left or the right
hand. It has negative effects especially to teenagers with those modern things.
It affects and eliminates to have good relationships with the family. Spending
time is an act of giving love.
Always feel Insecure and
jealousy
Every one wants to be
secure with financial status, education status, and family status.
If too much ambitions
without knowing the right thing to do, problem rises and it is not easy to get
out of the maze if you force to enter or do the things at first you don’t know
where the exit is.
Here is an example; there’s
a family who lives in a remote province of Philippines, they have simple way of life can eat three times a day having their
healthy 4 children. In other words, as an individuals each posses strengths and
weaknesses, these couple have the same ambitions like other families have and
just to acquire simple materials thing like to buy motorcycle but the problem
is a husband’s work is a farmer and a wife is part time vendor. In short, their
income is enough for their daily needs.
And because of eagerness to
have motorcycle, the wife was being forced to lend money from the lending
company to install a motorcycle. Luckily but not true they were successfully get
a motorcycle and they still has to pay the monthly installment with interest.
So bad happening, when the
due date comes there were no more money to give. Until the motorcycle was sent
back to the company and they still have debts pending with interest per month. The
company gave noticed if they can not pay the remaining amount, one of the
couple will go to the prison.
Starting the time they
fight and hurt each other physically and blaming each other’s mess. And that
was all the source of their broke up. And their children were so affected.
Currently, the wife is
leaving her children and looking for a job while the husband is staying at the
province and work in a farm for the survival of his 4 children.
I hope this couple will
stay together again and forgive and love each other. Do you feel insecure by
your currently status? Are you not contented of what you have today? Are you
jealous with your neighbor’s status? Do you compare yourself with others?
Love is accepting of who
you are. My advice is to try to smile and talk to your parents or your brothers
and sisters, ness and nephews. And if possible, organize small celebrations
once a week for your family gatherings. And save money for your birthday or
fiesta and invite your neighbors to come to your house to eat together and
spend your time to talk to them on any positive thing.
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