Failures give meaning to success: Failures and success is the product of the same process

Are you afraid to fail? 

Only few people want to accept failures because they believe that it is the end of their dreams. In reality, every one whether like it or not will experience to fail. God formulate failures in every life because it is failures that give meaning to success.

You must be happy if you encounter failures in your life because you can make other plans to make it better. Do not counts on failures instead count the knowledge you earn. With your positive thinking, your impossible dreams will transform into possible.

Practice to say; I can do more great things now than before. Failures it is a symbol of new beginning and new hope because new ideas will form. The secret to success is to have acceptance and learn to make another way through success. Start walking today and sometimes you stumble and fall, always keep in mind to stand and go.

Do you believe that failure and success are opposite?

In the little book of success it was Roger Von Oech said; that failure and success is product of the same process. It is not opposite.

Here is an example; A 4 years old kid who doesn’t have any idea to write lines or circle. At first work he will make countless erasures of his mistakes. The luckiest part of being a kid it is because of his positive behavior to have always the courage to learn.

The problem, when a kid is getting older he had many bad influence of other people it is especially his parents who controlled him and get punish if he made mistakes. Until he learned to get angry and feel disappointed and turn failure into negative and so it is the beginning of forgetting the importance of failures in life.

Is failure and success permanent or final?

A failure is permanent if you tell to yourself that it is final. And also to success, right now if you decide that you are already successful then it is final. But the thing is you thought yourself to be irrational and stubborn. Failures and success is not permanent and is not final. Failure and success will finally end if you are dead.

Since, you are still alive don’t stop working don’t stop learning and don’t stop dreaming. Be happy to live your life. Don’t be affected on bad influences instead of live your life to the fullest and make more friends and share them what you learned and experienced.

Love your family by means of communicating them with inspiring words. Help them to keep going on to live life happily beside of bitterness and give time especially with your parents; they need your liveliness and big smile.

Who make your failure and your success?

It is you who made every thing what your life would be. Failure is part of its form. Failure is an important ingredient to make your food become delicious. Don’t make your life miserable for the reason of failure; you must be thankful that you experienced failure because after that you get the success.   

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How to Control Anger and transform into Peace

Do you feel angry everyday?
To get angry is a good sign as a normal person because you know how to react the things or an event that you don’t really like. However, if you can’t control this feeling, there is an enormous problem ahead of you. To over express your anger it will make you stressful person, you can make trouble, and you will hurt the people around you, and lost a lot of good friends.

Can you bear the bad effects of extremely getting anger?
These tips are so simple but are difficult to follow in the middle of the fire of emotion;

1. Take a deep breath through the nose. It is a way of relaxing and to be calm technique, if when somebody says bad words you can reply in a positive response. So, the person who hates you will realize how awful her words and then she regrets of being high tempered person. So, because of breathing technique you change it in a better way.

2. Low tone your voice. Most mothers have strong and loud voice because they thought that the children will have discipline through their voice command. It is really a wrong ways to let your children hear the scary voices. Parents, you made your children more rebellious.

So, please stop using your voice always in angry style because when times you’re really angry the children will not believe in you because they thought that it is your style. Practice the soft voice with harmony in the house so that you will live in a peaceful and friendly family.

3. Stay away from useless fight. It is all started from comparing personalities, family class, job and career. This is not important and is not helpful to the situation in a family because if you always compare yourself to others achievement, it means you envy and get jealous and once you have the bad behavior you will try to level up to the one you compare with.

So, when your partner doesn’t approve your ridiculous decision, you will create a big trouble. Prevention is better than cure. So, if you want to stop the topic then try to say excuse me may I go to the comfort room and don’t go back quickly until your partner will forget it.



4. Say Sorry. One of the reasons why anger will always prevail because of the lack of being humble. It is really hard to say the word sorry, but if you do it for the betterment of all then you save your day.

5. Keep smiling always make the negative thoughts into positive. Like for example, in school you got low score, instead of looking yourself down that makes your day lousy, how about ask yourself a question, How to get a high score? If your mind can’t answer it, then search in google.com you’ll know everything.
Don’t ever get angry because it is like you destroys your body or kill yourself. Everyone knows this, HAPPINESS IS THE BEST MEDICINE.


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How to Leave the Past and Live for Today to have a Happy Life

How to transform the past experienced into a better life;

1. Fail in marriage relationship. Lots of married couple got divorced because of personal problem like third party relationship, overtime of hanging with friends and etc. It is really hard to move on but there is always a way to live and start a new life because CHANGE IS CONSTANT.

Here are tips to let it go of the past first, examine yourself what are the cause why marriage failed and promise you never do it again. Second, lists all the things that you make people happy and keep on doing it. Third, escape your old friends, family, and relatives much better you go to another place that is new for you and start from beginning. Fourth, always keep on energetic by doing everyday exercise like jogging and whatever as long as your thirst will flow. And finally, keep on telling yourself that there is always second chance and you are worthy to live a happy life because there is always a beginning and an ending, like morning and night and back to another day of morning.



 
2. No opportunity to Study College. Many countries in Asia are longing for clothes of knowledge because the only primary needs they provide are the food, clothing and shelter. With the poverty life, education is only the secondary of their needs. 

Can you help those children who have a chance to live into a better life? Yes, first, we can help through teaching for free to the kids one to two kids are good start. Second, the poor parents need knowledge too like techniques on how to make good money from their asset like farm, educate the parents the importance of saving, and teach them how to give proper hygiene and discipline of their children. Third, remember that wisdom and knowledge is always FREE all you have to do is find it and learn from what you have gain and College education is only for getting your diploma for an employment opportunity because the true fight never end after college. Finally, keep on reading lots of books that is informative and meaningful because it is will answer you on how to live a better life.


 
3. No chance to burn body fat. Hey wake up! Can you write all the possible work you plan to do for today? Please write it down now! Do it now. Do you work at the company? How far is that from your home? Is it walking distance? Please walk. Do you have a car? Don’t drive commute is great. If you are not working at Saturdays and Sundays, can you do exercise? Jogging is best for you and your family. Please buy tape measure, and weighing scale to monitor your weight. And you will surprise you get sexy, fit, mentally and physically healthy! 

 

We all know that billions of people have different pasts, the best thing todo is to make your day happy and be strong all the time! Thank you.
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How to Handle Criticism

 Don’t Judge a Person with regards to Image, of what he chose and Words he Said;

Do you have opinions?
Are you a good listener?
Why do people hate people?
What are the things you like the most and you hate the most?
 
Most people aim of perfection like having perfect physical personality with shiny hair, long nose, and smooth skin, tall and sexy but, is it really important to be like this?  

If you think you are one of being perfectionist you will like this, afraid to face with many people, you always encounter trouble and not contented of things that you are doing although these opinions produces a lot of problems in our lives, but there are types of people like this a perfectionist so the important things to do is accept them and try to help these people to wake up of what is right. We are all here to think about others not for your own self.

On the other way, a person made a wrong decision it is because of the influence of his/her relationship to other with the family and friends. You have to do something good for those who are misguided in their way. 
Don’t make it a habit to make gossip, make negative comments and looking down. If you do this, you are loser because you are one of that person to whom you judged, it means those words you said to others that’s defines about who you are too!



"God made us two ears the left side is for meaning and the other side is for feeling".
 
Be a good listener to someone who express about what they feel. Use your all senses the touch, smell, sight and taste because these will be the best way to understand well the opinions and feelings of others.  

Touch is the most powerful means of communication even though you will not speak and you just touch the person who felt sad, he/she will feel delightful. 

People hate each other because of insecurities and ranking of class. Materials things are the temptation and evil that had poisoned the minds of everyone like to wish of having their own Cars, House and Lot, Money, Television, Computers, Cell phones and etc. If you force yourself to have all these things due to jealousy, you will be suffering a lot debt in your entire life. 

However, if you have analyzed of what you only need so chose the simple life and live peacefully. That does all depend of your decision either you live with lot of debt or live simple and peaceful. We all know in the world that debt is a big problem but why do people chose to be like that? Well in fairness to those who owe money with a good purpose there’s no problem with that. But how about today there’s high percentage today that they’re happy to owe money but when it’s time to pay they escape. 

So, for those who do business in lending or any kinds of debts opportunity please be careful to lend your money with a good purpose like to use for spending of looking for job going abroad, make small and big business. The lending company or banks must be watchful, aware and thoughtful to give an important advice of what is right and wrong for the people who wish to owe money.
 
There are things you like the most and hate the most write down all the things that you always do in everyday life and you can’t feel bored with it. Like cooking, gardening, blogging, singing, jogging, reading, spend time with families and watch television.  

Try to ask yourself if these things that you like are important to you?
Sometimes you hate to do a thing that is actually a very important to your life like, responsibility in household chores, develop your talents to the fullest, have regular study, refuse to cooperate and help your parents. It advisable to give value to those things that you hate for because these things might be the way through your success. And it is true that it is difficult to love what you hate and also it’s not easy to forgive and forget. But if you try to change the way you think before, you will change everything inside and out. 

So, in relations to don’t judge a person with regards to image, of what he chose and the words he said the most important in life is how real are you as a person?  
Always follow and obey the truth because the truth will lead you the way for a perfect life by live simply and peaceful. Try to feel perfect in good moral values.



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How to Give Value of Things

How to value life?

Why are you afraid to die?
What are the things that you value most and you can’t live without it?

There are two types of values the OBJECTIVES AND SUBJECTIVES;

1. The value of job. It is not simple to have a stable job. There are many things to do to achieve the job that you aim. You have a lot of sacrifices to go to the office every day from 7am-4pm or until 10pm to have overtime. There’s circumstances will come like, if you are married it is very difficult to handle the time management for your wife and children. Although, you have no problem with regards to financial needs because you chose your job as your priority and it is right that you gain that stability of your job coz you put your hard work into it.




2. The value of money. Money is an instrument to buy our basic needs and wants. It is the primary concern of all the people to find job and business to make money also you will not survive without money.

The reason why some people do illegal job just to make money because of its need. The advantage of valuing the money is that you can control your money not the money will control you like for instance, you tempt to steal in the bank, stores and in the government however, if your money will work for you, your life will be is easy, feel comfortable and peaceful.


3. The value of career. What is your career? Career is a profession or job that you are really an expert of that field. A profession to be a full time wife and a mother, this is only a career that sometimes wives are underestimated this because they don’t give more importance, improve and develop to become good rule model as a wife, this career is the most vital to give 100% focus because if you fail to become a good leader in the family, you bring forever failure. 

Therefore, if you value your career, first come to your mind must be your profession as a good rule model in a family. 




4. The value of time. There are lots of quotes about time. Time is like a diamond. Do you value your time? 
Are you a passive type of person? 
Do you believe that to wake up early is a way to value time? 
How do you use your time in effective way? 
Are you happy when you finish your work on time? 
  
Do you have time to be with your family most of the time?  
Do you and your family eat every meal all the time? 
Do you usually work overtime? 

Many questions to ask about time because time is the number one reason of everything, trouble and peace, good and bad, happy and sad, win and lose failure and success. The relationship of trouble and peace in time like if you follow your time schedule about your work to do everyday you will not encounter trouble.

If you sleep in a right time you will not feel bad, you are happy if you achieve your goals time by time, if you practice your career everyday you will never lose the fight lastly, you will absolutely fail if you will not give the right value of time. 

5. The value of having good moral of inside and out. You will meet a lot of good friends, having good relationship in a family, in a company, schools and or any kinds of organizations. To have a good moral values, is a key to success especially if you have the ability to have self discipline, patience, self determination, self confidence, faith, hope and love not only for yourself but most especially to others.




Note: Practice to break your thought not to worry in materials things, because these are all worthless. The most important you need to practice and have it is your relationship to others. Always say yes anybody will need your help. Volunteer to help!.
God speed to all!
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How to Overcome Challenges In Life

True Colors of Personality Prevails when Challenges Comes

What do you think what is the meaning of colors?

True Colors of Personality Prevail when Challenges will Come If your answer is your favorite color, then you are exactly right because colors has its own personality, like for instance you chose the color red, as you knew it the red symbolizes bravery, aggressive and love so what colors of personality do you belong?



Every individual has its own personality, that is why it is very important to develop excellent personality traits because our personality will affects our everyday life decisions that it will guides us to do the right and to choose the good nor bad.

As a good example to measure true colors of your personality is when you encounter challenges in your life. Every time you face the challenges, you have to be thankful because this is the only way to develop your personality into a better one.

This is the moment that you can measure and know your weaknesses and strength just to face the challenges and solve it without fear.

There a lots of lessons you get once you’re in trouble or in challenge; first is you are being able to force yourself to think the way so you develop your Intelligent quotient, second is you know how to control the anger inside and to be cool and relax you develop here the emotional Intelligence, third you practice how to do the way in step by step and fourth, you realize that challenges makes you more stronger than before so you had mold better personality.

Do you think to have lots of wealth; being professionals or highly educated people with regards to their expertise had already attained better personality?

A lot of people confirmed that money and gaining master’s degree is not the way of attaining to develop better personality because as you all knew that money without getting it by hard work is evil. Except if you work hard and have a lots of money and you give love of what you are doing, you have passion and you have freedom to do all your works and that’s good personality is. In fact, you can not buy reputation, love, respect, wisdom and freedom in money.

Why is it that when a rich family will go to the house of a poor family, it is very welcome to come inside without hesitation and the poor will offer to their best food for the rich while, the poor will go into the house of the rich is not treated well? 

In fact, the rich are very capable to give to the poor the high quality food or everything they can give. This is very wrong practiced of personality for the rich family because this means of being unfair and if you treat unequally to each individual, you are about to lose your dignity as a result to have low personality. True colors of personality prevail when challenges will come.

Do you ever feel that a challenge makes you more become mature? 
Mature means of thinking of others not of yourself. Can you possibly change your bad personality into good? 
Do you know what colors of personality you have? 

This is your time to think and analyze well if you are did aware of your personality. So, whatever challenge will come to you, face it, fight for it, solve it, feel it and learn from it. Always remember that God never wanted your material success indeed he wants you to be more mature in achieving to have good behavior because this is the only thing you can bring to his kingdom! 

That is why, you are very thankful to him for every challenge you are facing because God wants you to be with him forever! “Many are invited, but only a few are chosen”. Once you pass the challenge so, you are one the chosen.


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Use of Communication to Interact People

What is the use of Effective Communication Skills; Effective Listening Skills; Family Relations;

The topics which I presented here are tips to develop the ability of interpersonal skills.  

What is an interpersonal skill all about?
Why is it important and needs to have these skills?

We all know that it is an instinct to us to seek for partners, friends and family to be able to express our emotions. That’s why we are meant to practice socializing with people around us in order to achieve our own interests and needs.

So, for the people who aim to have successful partners, friends and families, each one of us needs to develop the characteristics of effective communications, effective listening, family relations, problem solving and decision making.

 These are all the preparations to achieve high skills in an interpersonal skill. To gain an effective communication you must be very good speaker and a good listener. Through effective communication both of the parties can form nice ideas from which what topics they are talking about because the interaction is consistent and is always in a right direction.

 It is also that when you communicate you have to use gestures like for instance; raising a right hand for proper salute so, you are telling to the listeners that it is military sign of respect to high rank in position. You don’t need explain to them because they all understand by the way you act.

Second, the Thai, Japanese, Chinese and Koreans cultures if they meet Filipino friends before they leave it has a customs to bow to a person whom they meet. And it is symbolized for them a sign of respect and be thankful, they don’t need to say Thank you. And that’s how important non verbal communication is.
In effective listening you must know what the speaker feels about the message that is being shared to you because that person is expecting your opinion and feedback.

Why do people share their problems with you?

You are blessed when there’s some of your friend tells about his/her problems because it is a sign that you are an honest person and you are a good listener. So try to be a good listener, always think about his/her problem and feel that you are the one had that problem before because to be able to have consistent conversation.

You can’t feel bored if you are trying to imagine you had already experienced those problems and is easy for you to give back your opinions and advices.

 About the family relations, problem solving, decision making and habits of highly effective people as long as you learn effective communications and listening skills it is not a big struggle for you to solve problems because you already have the skills on how to fight.

In this topic you are developing your EQ. Your Emotional Intelligence/Quotient is high because your personal characteristics are so strong. EQ is more powerful and IQ.




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How to Get Self Confidence

 What is the difference between confident and shy and how does it affects to you?
 What makes you confident?

 Read more books to gather information is a way to gain confidence because the more knowledgeable you are the better you interact with so many people.

Assertive means to be confident, certain, assured and positive while shy means no confidence, pessimistic, self-doubt and uncertainty. The value of being assertive is vital to all people because to have confident you can acquire highest gratitude, fulfillment, enjoyment and success.

 In order to attain confidence it starts through socialization by practicing interacting people. Parents are number one instruments that they are responsible to teach their children how to socialize with the other children.

 In today’s generation most of the kids are relying on television in fact, it is good influence though because some shows in television are educational like Dora, Diego, artzooka and etc. kids can acquire creativity regarding the contents of the show. However, the confidence of a kid is not well attained because television shows belongs to intrapersonal that has no interaction between you and the characters although television influence your personality, values and beliefs system. 

Like for instance, I have a nephew who always enjoys watching television shows because her mother don’t let him go outside to play with our neighbor’s kid due to his own safety. Based of my observation from my nephew’s behavior or actions at home, he is talkative but in school, he is quite and polite.

In other words he is careful of his actions in school because he is not often socializing with people. In relations to have confident, the more you interact with different kinds of people, the better your confident will boost. 

The tips to boost confidence are as follows;
 
1. A proper manner is vital to confidence. Practice to learn good moral character or good manners and right conduct. You will feel comfort if you are in a good and proper way as a child or a person. It all starts at home. 

2. Interaction is vital to confidence. Try to socialize and interact with many people either in school, neighbors, church and company. If you are a student, find ways to interact with your classmates, teachers and friends. On the other way, being alone is good when you study but it is better to give time to be with everybody. 

3. Expertise is vital to confidence. Talking about professions and careers like musicians, teachers, lawyer, priests and sales manager and etc. it is very important that you have 100% percent confidence because you are facing with many people. You can not deliver the message well if you are uncertain, right there you will feel nervous your body will shake and you can’t control your gestures so, your performance will low. You will gain confidence only if you master your skills with regards to your profession or careers. 

4. Positive is vital to confidence. Once you have the skills you are automatic positive thinker. To always think positive, imagine that you are at the top of the Mount Everest. This mountain is the most high so you set your mind always in high mode. It is necessary with kids to start build confidence because when you get old you will find never find it difficult.

 Confident is what makes you stand in a good posture!
 
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Tips to Be a Successful College Student

 My husband graduated as Cum Laude in Electronics Engineering way back year 2002 in one of the most popular university in Cebu, Philippines. Actually as of the time I wrote this tips, I am still studying Bachelor of Arts in Music. I am currently at the second semester in my first year as a university student.

The first semester is of course a success, I manage to included as one of the College of Arts Dean List honors. The following list of tips is for everyone looking for success in their college/university studies. And I do believe that all of these tips can be applied regardless of age, course and school where you are currently studying.

 
Be warned that there is no easy path to success in college education, its all about hard work, perseverance, commitment and patience. And that what's I learned from my husband with those years of experiences he shared to me many times about how he manage to reach honors at end of his college studies. So let's get started...

Tip#1: Always bring an assignment notebook and write EVERYTHING what the instructor needs you to do for tomorrow or coming days/weeks.

Reason: One of the common mistakes student commits when studying college is carelessness and lack of responsibility/focus as a student. Too many times they are too shy to write an assignment notebook because they think everyone else is not doing it. In fact, writing what the instructor needs you to do is a smart way to keep you updated with all the assignments, quiz schedules, reading assignments and examination tips that are vital for your success until the end of the semester.

Tip#2: Buy or secure all books, handbooks and reading materials the instructor “wants” you to have  
  
Reason:  This includes the main course textbook,manuals and other references that instructor is using. Sometimes the references (which are books that the instructor does not require) are where most of the examinations are taken, so if you do not have any of these resources you will be having a hard time studying and passing every exams.

Tip#3: The consistent number of hours dedicated to STUDYING everyday

Reason: This does not only apply to school days but the entire days of the week. The main difference between successful and unsuccessful students, is that those successful ones are studying everyday at least 6 hours. While those problematic students only care about studies when they are at school.

Tip#4: Study and understand the topic in ADVANCE before a formal instructor discussion

Reason: Successful students tend to be curious about the the course topic that all of them care to study in advance. It is why it is very useful to have those study materials/references with you. Ask the instructor what are the complete course outline so that you can study it in advance. Of course, since you are new to the topic, confusion is normal. This is where you can write those questions so that the time when the instructor discusses that topic, you can ask that question and have it answered.

Tip#5: Don't be absent even a single session IF possible

Reason: It is because if you are always absent, you miss a lot of scoring opportunities not counting those discussions that are important during the exams.

Tip#6: Participate ACTIVELY in any oral discussion opportunities

Reason: Instructor loves active and participative students. In return, they will give them a good grade for active participation, so make sure you are always raising your hands wheneven a instructor ask the class about a certain question. Passive students doesn't care about the instructor questions, in return instructor doesn't care about their grades. You need to be active during class discussion.

Tip#7. Difficult instructors care beyond grades

In every college studies, there are difficult instructors. These are the instructors or instructors nicknamed as “terror” by students. The truth is that these instructors are just “perfectionist” in any way that they demand the students “respect”, “attention”, “participation”, “time” and most importantly your grades and your smiles. The trick is to study harder if your instructor is difficult and try the best to get good grades during exam. Then you need to be nice to your instructor and don't behave in a way you hate the instructor. Sometimes even academic performances are not enough for these type of instructors. You also need to be behave well in class and show outmost respect to that instructor.


Tip#8: Aim 100% in every exam.

Sounds impossible, but its not. Actually this is a great technique applied by honor students. I mean they always targeting to be perfect in every exam. If they do not actually hit 100% but at least they got 90% or even 95% at least which is still a very good grade. In the end, their average can be very high that they will qualify for honors. Some students will just dream to reach passing grade, and if they miss out that passing mark just a little; they will surely fail.

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How to Transform Yourself into a Better Person?

One of the important things you need to compete in life is to transform yourself into a better person. “Better person” is to define as follows:

a.) A person that is fully equipped with skills needed to succeed.
b.) A person that understands the unfair things in life.
c.) A person that can find ways to reach his/her goal.

Of course, if you are not a better person, you are far from achieving success. Better person not only will be useful for attaining success but can be applicable to any events in your life.

Events such as applying and winning for a job title, participating in a race, winning a girlfriend or boyfriend or even winning in a local elections takes you to be a better person.

The secret sauce in unlocking the recipe of transformation is knowing yourself. So here are my steps to transform you into a better person:

Step1. Understand yourself. Write down your top 3 talent.

 
Step2. In those 3, select your strongest talent. The one you are sure you will be able to compete in life.
 
Step3. Write down your top 3 ambitions relating to your top 3 strongest talent. The ambitions needs to be strongly related to your talent.

Example: These are my top 3 talent and my strongest talent is singing:
a.) Singing = I would like to become a singer/songwriter, composing a lot of songs and a performing artists.

b.) Cooking = I would like to become a home based professional cook, being able to cook for my husband and children.

c.) Dancing = I would like to dance at home, maybe become a home based dancing instructor soon.

Step4.) Now write down the skills needed to succeed for your strongest talent for the other 2 talents.
I assume that at this moment in time, you are not yet an “expert” , so you have to list down all the skills that you need to acquire in order to be considered as an expert.

You need to plan ahead, how you are going to acquire these skills. Is it studying in college? Applying as an intern? Etc.

Step5.) Write down the uncertainties in your selected ambition. Life is unfair, so you need to achieve it. For example:

a.) Not all persons dreaming of becoming an artist can get a recording label.
b.) Not all persons will like your cooking.
c.) Not all persons will be impressed by your dancing.

Step6.) Asked yourself whether you have the guts to accept the unfairness that comes along the way. Are you happy to accept rejections? Are you willing to accept you will not become an artist signed to a recording label?

Step7.) Implement a recovery plan in case your main ambition turns out not according to your plan. So if you won't become a singer for example, can you find some money earning from your cooking career? Etc.

Conclusion: A better person understands himself/herself, understands the cruelness and unfairness of this world and willing to move forward in a positive direction in case anything not good will happen.


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Inspirational Quotes about Living Life to the Fullest

For me I can say that “Life is govern by people quotations and failure to understand these quotations can mean a miserable life”.

Some successful people that lives on Earth leaves some of the most important quotations particularly dealing with living life to the fullest.

We only have one life to live on this Earth, it is our duty to bring out the best in it. So if you relate a specifications to a product quality, or a musical notes to a music; quotations can relate to people.

Below are some of the best quotes I learned in life, in which principles are based upon:


1.) The ultimate of being successful is the luxury of giving yourself the time to do what you want to do- Leontyne Price

Comments:

Freedom is a universal right and luxury. By doing the things you love not dictated by anyone is already an indication that you MIGHT be successful. But if you are HAPPY with the things you do , not told by anyone (not only “love” to do) then you are really successful.

2.) There are no great men, only great challenges that ordinary men are forced by circumstances to meet." William F. Halsey

Comments:
Some people say they are limited, actually NOT; if you are forced by circumstances of which you REALLY NEED TO DO, then you will become a great person. If you want to live life to the fullest, accept some challenges in your life, it can transform you to an invincible person.

3.) He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still - Lao Tzu

Comments:
Just like in a movie which relates to reality, how many times have you seen a master boss villain being successful in slaying the hero? Only RARE, so it means if you want again to live your life to the fullest extent, master your own sets of skills to the fullest and no one can defeat you except God. Be humble before Him.

4.) Be Content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the whole world belongs to you. - Lao Tzu

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Limit your needs to ACTUALLY WHAT YOU NEED. Plain and simple, if you do not need anything; it's like the whole world now belongs to you. Living life to the fullest again does not mean you need to acquire anything, mansions, cars, fame, luxurious vacations, expensive blah....NO..NO....NO NO... Just get what you REALLY need. You do not need to have anything to own everything. If you find this UNTRUE, dream yourself to be a philosopher also and see if you will become more successful and unforgettable than Lao Tzu.. NOT!
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Training needs Analysis methodology–Successful job performance

If you have a lot of new and old employees and you are expecting the best performance from them, one of the answers is TRAINING. Do not expect them to perform well if you have not trained them COMPLETELY by your department pertaining to the job she/he needs to do.

Training is not always the answer for better job and productivity performances as well as helping employees attain company goals/objectives. In this case, you need to do training need analysis. In this analysis you need to do some sort of interviews, surveys and examination on your employees pertaining to these following core areas:

1.) Job performance problem
2.) Level of technology used by your company preventing them to be efficient and productive on their job.
3.) Issues on company policies affecting their work and needs.

Training needs analysis is an important step that you should do before conducting any types of training methods effective for your employees. The following illustrates the methodology and analysis result summary of sample training needs analysis:

Job Performance Problem:

Job Title: Manufacturing Engineers
Average number of years working in the company: 2
Number of engineers examined: 6
Job performance problem – According to series of test conducted, the company engineers appears to be seriously lacking in knowledge pertaining to this key areas:

1.) Mastery in MS Excel.
2.) Lacking mastery in statistical analysis.
3.) Problems managing his time on a daily basis.
4.) Slow in creating yield reports using MS PowerPoint.

Level of Technology used:

It is also revealed that:
1.) The company purchased advanced software for engineering analysis and statistical computation but the engineer does not know how to use it properly.
2.) The engineers supposed to be working closely with manufacturing technicians. However, since they do not know how to operate the machines, they can hardly suggest for better ways to improve operator/technician performance.

Issues on company policies affecting their work and needs

Company policies are also affecting manufacturing engineers to perform their job properly such as:

1.) Frequent work overtimes and even engineers are force to work overtime on a daily basis.
2.) Several reported violations on company policies by the engineers; it means that they have not completely understood the company handbook.

The above are sample summary of the overall training needs and result analysis. By having this set of data are important because it can help your employees to be successful in their job. Now determine if those problems can be answered by training the employees or suggest other ways to resolve their issues (such as a company policy change).

Important note on the above methods: Instead of providing questionnaire and letting them answer the training needs analysis, it would be much better if you spend time actually evaluating their job performance rather than providing a questionnaire. Sometimes employees will not tell the truth and may not be willing to be trained. It is management responsibility to find the most accurate method in assessing a training needs analysis that actually reflects job performance.
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Rare Tips for Happiness: Congratulate yourself

Happiness is everybody's goal. There is no sense for success in career, business, love and everything without a feeling of happiness.

Let me share you some rare secret to be happy: “Congratulating Yourself”.

Human is always in need to be recognized for his or her achievements and what is good is that you won't even need someone you can celebrate your success with. You can do it yourself.

How?

First, you need to create challenge in your life. For example, say you are an internet blogger and you are aiming for at least $2 a day passive income from your blogs.

Or if you are student, you can create challenge by having all your exams with ratings above 90% as well as no late submissions on assignments and projects.

If you are an employee, you can make sure that all deadlines and projects are meet on time. Also you can even make it as a challenge that you will never received a single customer complaint for the entire month.

As long you have job to do, you can create challenge in your life.

Second, manage your way to success on a daily basis, checked your schedules and daily tasks to make sure you attended and remembered it well. You need to make sure that you are a person of action , not just good in planning and doing nothing.

Third, once you reach the end of the month, assess your challenge if you have achieved it. If yes, then spend one whole day celebrating by the following suggestions:

1.) Do things that you really love. For example, if you are movie geek and Toy Story 3 just came out, watch the movie alone. Or if you have someone you can bring with, it is fine, but make sure that this celebration is for you not for someone else. If you are afraid that someone might destroy your day, do not bring them or else it will just waste your celebration.

2.) Do not ever open your computer for work on that day. This is supposed to be a day of celebration as you are congratulating yourself for the job well done.

3.) Eat well. Go to your most favorite restaurant and spend your money on good foods. This will remove your stresses for the entire month and helps you recharged.

4.) Buy something very important to your job. Now you are on shopping, it is your time you can think of something that will be very useful to you. For example, if you are a musician, maybe you can buy new sets of guitar strings for your old guitar.

5.) Go home early for the day, buy some beers for you and sleep a lot.
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Positive Mindset Quotes that can change your life

Here are my own positive quotes that I would like to share with you. Maybe this might change how you look at your own life:

1.) There is no such thing as “difficult” when you THINK and re-THINK and then write all possible actions.

Example: If you are working on a very difficult project that is limited with your own sets of skills. You then say it was difficult. But have you really think, how you can accomplish it by writing all possible solutions?

If you hired me to construct a building and I am not an civil engineer, then I will just say NO and it solves the problem. Sometimes NO is a possible solution. Watch the movie “Yes Man” and you will learn why.

2.) Happy face always starts with a happy mind.

How many times someone needs to pretend they are happy when their mind is NOT. How many times someone needs to buy lots of luxurious to stay happy? I think if you can be able to control your mind and control what you will need to “picture” out in there; then you can be happy by just thinking you will be happy.

3.) Intelligence may distinguish a person from each other BUT all of them can work HARD

You might feel de-motivated if you feel you are not intelligent enough to do the tasks and you will never succeed. WRONG - in reality; everyone can work HARD. And by working hard everything can be accomplished with patience.

An average minded person that will dedicate his life to a certain work SHOULD appear successful in the long run than an intelligent person with no dedication in life.

4.) A failure is the best opportunity for improvement

Be happy with failures and upsets in life, you are just very LUCKY to know how you will be able to do something else better next time soon without even receiving bias feedbacks from friends, co-employees or even your boss!

5.) To accomplish a lot of work is to think that time is LIMITED

How many persons might say, “Yeah I will just postpone this work tomorrow”? Then after the end of the month, just accomplished a few sets of tasks.

What if someone thinks time is limited? Then you can do many. It is why a common boss technique in employment is to “pressure” their employees to work fast and hard because they KNOW that they can accomplish a lot of tasks in a limited amount of time.

If you are a working in your own, then you can do this without getting harmed (as opposed to boss yelling at you in the office asking for urgent work outputs).
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How to Encourage Yourself to be a Better Person

 Encourage yourself when your Alone.
 Can you make yourself alone sometimes?
Do it and you'll found answers of your problems.

When you feel depress it seems you lose everything, out of your mind, high temper, feel laziness, no interest to talk to everyone else and feels nothing. These are all causes of having negative mind. To stay away with all these it all started by you;

1. Talk. Go out to your room and talk someone to whom you trust. Express your entire problem and listen to their response. Remember that we are responsible for each one of us that is why God made a man and woman, to help each other, know their weaknesses and accept with all their heart.


2. Learn from your mistakes. Accept your faults and examine why did it happen to you and why did you do that? Don’t blame it to others because it makes you worst than ever. You’ll have to laugh it and tell yourself of not doing it again.


3. Do your favorite activities, interest and likes. What do you like to do everyday that makes you happy is it ( playing with kids, cooking, drawing, jamming with friends, read books, singing, dancing, playing instruments, swimming and etc… you should make yourself active when you’re at times of trouble.

4. Pray to God. These are step by step prayer techniques it is called “ACTSM” means A-adore, C- contrition, T- thanksgiving, S-supplication, M- meditation.

Quotes: Don’t hate someone to whom you couldn’t give what you need instead of loving them with all of your heart and accept their weaknesses because they are the number one beings who are always ready to talk in times of troubles. Everyone is made for a purpose.

Remember try not to abuse those people and learn to care of them. In the future, you may gain more courage and happiness because of what you have done from the past and many people wants to be thankful to you. And when you hear somebody who says thank you, your heart is beating so fast because of unconditional happiness. Change, is the only thing to make you a better person.


What are you today is not the same for tomorrow. Keep on make life interesting and enjoy through of what is good for every body.

More tips be a better person, is that be willing to share your talents to others. Teach them what you have learn because there are many people, who wants wise information especially tips about their fields.

Like for instance, tips on how to make a dress, how to cook delicious, how to be beautiful and etc. If you can offer help to others, that means you achieve not only a better person but rather a Great person.

I hope God will give more hope, to be happy all the time!


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How to be a Good Person

To be a good person can save you in the coming of end of the world?

To be a good person needs more work to do. Self satisfaction with a little things is a sign of being a good person.

If you hate someone with purpose, that is also bad but if you have the ego to face that person and tell him the cause of your hatred and give that person an advice not to do unto others, that could be a sign to be a good person. 

High Tempered is equal to Fire. Fire symbolize bravery, learn how to control your emotions and let the good side be on the top.



Do you remember the 2012 movie?

Do you believe that is really happening in our Planet?

When will be the end of the World? 

Here is my Insight about the 2012 movie and there are some information that could be change you to be a good person;

When I finished saw a movie “2012” I learned a lot about behavior in life. We all know that we love materials things and we all know that when we die we can not bring these all to heaven. Only our souls fly and live forever in heaven.

But the question says how can you enter the kingdom of God? To be a good person is enough but how can you do to be a good follower of God. Now I realized that why God made us rich and poor it is because of purpose.

 If you have all the materials things like money, house, lot and big farm what should you do? And you know that there are many people who are suffering in poverty like no shelter, no food because they don’t have farm to plants crops, fruits and vegetables. You start to help now!  

There are people who dream to become successful of their ambitions, are you doing something to help them fulfill their dream?

Poor people always thinking they are below than rich and rich abuse them.

Do you think that is good?

You have wake up now bad people it is now time to change. Let your heart feel with love to each other by sharing your blessings and helping to those who are in needs.
Finally, not necessarily you help by your money; you can also help by sharing your talent to everyone and serve the people who need it without expecting any return.




MAKE YOUR MIND AT  PEACE AND LET YOUR HEART BEAT!
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How to make your Parents proud of you

Help your parent's livelihood everyday

This is one of the best parts of your experience in life especially when you are at minor ages from 6-17years old. The past cannot be changed but we call it history.

So, my advice does not ever give problems to your parents. Make them proud and happy parents.

Stay away from scary, unhealthy and dangerous vices

Like DRUG ADDICTION, SMOKING & OVER DRINK LIQUOR these will lead you to have miserable life forever. Always remember your parents are always there to support you emotionally, spiritually and financially.

Do you believe that YOUTH IS THE HOPE OF THE NATION? So, please always be a good child and make your parents proud of you no matter what happen.

Give your 100% respect and 100% love to your parents at all times

Parents are bad leaders sometimes but this is not the reason why you don't give them respect and love. Please accept their weaknesses; parents are worthy to give 100% full of respect and to give 100% full of love.
Believe in me your parents are so special a very special because only parents can give unconditional love. Parents are ready to sacrifice for the good of their children.

Give your big hug and show your big smile

Your happiness is your parent’s happiness. Parents want to see their children always happy.


I love my Mama Teresa and Tatay Isidro... I am very proud of my parents!!!

I hope I can hear someone who shares their family life experiences.

Thank you my dear readers!!!
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