Life is not perfect but needs balance

In life there’s nothing to be perfect of but doing the right duties. Rich and poor have the same experienced in sorrow and in joy though its approaches is quite different. 

Say I’m rich because I can buy all I want in life. I can eat in an expensive restaurant and buy prestigious clothes; I can go to high in universities and live in a big house. Do you think that’s all enough in life?

Besides of earthly and worldly satisfaction, there is always limitation because of the word life is proportional. Life without balance is no meaning. You can not achieve true happiness without experiencing sadness.

Is it true that problems are keys to know God?

Or do you believe that problems are God’s purpose to remind you that you are not alone?

How strong or weak are you when problems attacking you?

Here are the common problems to face real life;

Health problems

Body is the most important asset to have perfect life so it needs to take good care of. The first one is the inner parts of the body especially the brain and heart. Second are the physical parts of the body the five senses. If all these body parts are not functioning well, health problems occurs.

Every one knows that food is important for the body to functions. It is like a car with gasoline. But too much food intake creates health problem turns out to obesity. No one experience happiness to have fat body.

If you eat carelessly, your body expands, your blood is not properly circulating and it results to heart attack. Life is all about balance, too much food makes you fat and too much knowledge leads you to become crazy.

Perfectionist

Some people define success in doing goals perfectly. You have to realize that you are God’s servant. He made you for his purpose. God knows when you can make mistakes and the right time to attain your success.

Forget your personal needs and focus on God’s purpose for you because this is the only way to get perfect through God’s will. And example for this; is a parent you might realize that they have their own dreams in life, but instead of having you as their children, their focus is to satisfy your needs. If a parent doing God’s purpose, they achieve 100% happiness and success through having peaceful family. To have a balance, as a children rules you give respect and love your parent.

Forgetting yourself is a key to happiness. To live a happy life is a means of sacrificing by forgetting yourself and to fulfill other’s needs. And yet to be a perfectionist is a way to darkness because only made 1 mistake it is a huge frustrations and it leads to suicide.

Perfectionist is a dangerous practice to all.

Pride

It is a mortal sin because it creates self centeredness and greed. All resources that we see, touch, smell, and eat are God’s creation. There is no way to be selfish. Life for instance, rich people owned a land hectare which is unfair and because of the pride they can not surrender to give their land to the poor.

This event really happen in the Philippines, majority of Filipino families only lives in a small house and in squatter’s area. They don’t have land to own because of greed to the rich Filipino people but actually they are not rich at all because those lands were from their ancestors.

There is no proportional happening of third world countries like Philippines. If all the people are willing to sacrifice by sharing their wealth in fact it is not their true wealth it’s from God, this country Philippines is more fun to live because every body is happy.

Do you believe that Philippines is more fun to live? And see many poor Filipinos dying? And kill each other for food? And fight each other for their shelter?  If you have lack of education, not enough food and no shelter, what would you do? Do you think life is fair?

The answers of these questions are taking away pride of you and start to share.

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Words of Inspirations and Affirmations

1. I am not afraid when I feel alone; God is always with me in every ticking of a clock.

2. I will not worry of today and tomorrow because God will provide everything I need.

3. Talk to God and he will listen, Ask God and he will answer, Seek God and you will find him in your heart, mind and soul.

4. There is no impossible with God if you surrender everything with him.

5. God knows everything about you and whatever happens to you either you feel it difficult, you have to be happy because in times of suffering the more he is at your side.

6. Try to say thank you to God about the little things to big things in your life.

 7. Always be proud of what you're doing because he is proud of you too and happy for you. God is like your parents or loved ones. He needs your love and care.

8. God don't like secrets. He always wants to listen of everything about you stories. And every word that you write and say are all words of God.
 
9. I am empty without God. He owns everything in me. My body is temporary but my soul is forever.
 
10. Happiness can't reciprocate money but if you work with full of love you will have both money and happiness.
 
11. Success only measures on how you are close to God.
 
12. The reasons of always getting into trouble and have no confident is the lack of trust of God.
 
13. Every man has weakness and strength God designed us like this because he wanted us to understand each other in this world.
 
14. Word of rejection is a word of man. Remember God will always appreciate of being humble person.
 
15. God never ever reject you. He loves you forever and eternally.
 
16. God will control you mind and heart to do what he is intended you to do. Life is like all types of flowers because of its wonderful colors.
 
17. God always want your consistent communication 



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How to Encourage Yourself to be a Better Person

 Encourage yourself when your Alone.
 Can you make yourself alone sometimes?
Do it and you'll found answers of your problems.

When you feel depress it seems you lose everything, out of your mind, high temper, feel laziness, no interest to talk to everyone else and feels nothing. These are all causes of having negative mind. To stay away with all these it all started by you;

1. Talk. Go out to your room and talk someone to whom you trust. Express your entire problem and listen to their response. Remember that we are responsible for each one of us that is why God made a man and woman, to help each other, know their weaknesses and accept with all their heart.


2. Learn from your mistakes. Accept your faults and examine why did it happen to you and why did you do that? Don’t blame it to others because it makes you worst than ever. You’ll have to laugh it and tell yourself of not doing it again.


3. Do your favorite activities, interest and likes. What do you like to do everyday that makes you happy is it ( playing with kids, cooking, drawing, jamming with friends, read books, singing, dancing, playing instruments, swimming and etc… you should make yourself active when you’re at times of trouble.

4. Pray to God. These are step by step prayer techniques it is called “ACTSM” means A-adore, C- contrition, T- thanksgiving, S-supplication, M- meditation.

Quotes: Don’t hate someone to whom you couldn’t give what you need instead of loving them with all of your heart and accept their weaknesses because they are the number one beings who are always ready to talk in times of troubles. Everyone is made for a purpose.

Remember try not to abuse those people and learn to care of them. In the future, you may gain more courage and happiness because of what you have done from the past and many people wants to be thankful to you. And when you hear somebody who says thank you, your heart is beating so fast because of unconditional happiness. Change, is the only thing to make you a better person.


What are you today is not the same for tomorrow. Keep on make life interesting and enjoy through of what is good for every body.

More tips be a better person, is that be willing to share your talents to others. Teach them what you have learn because there are many people, who wants wise information especially tips about their fields.

Like for instance, tips on how to make a dress, how to cook delicious, how to be beautiful and etc. If you can offer help to others, that means you achieve not only a better person but rather a Great person.

I hope God will give more hope, to be happy all the time!


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How Do You Spend and Celebrate Christmas Day

Is Christmas a costs?

Christmas traditions are very costly. But happiness is unmeasurable especially to children.

To expects Christmas Gifts from their parents, sisters, brothers and grand parents.

For me, this is the most lucky day of all the people rich or poor. Once every year, I watched Christmas movies as for my own traditions.

And I always dream to go to the place in the movie, that there is snow lots of gifts around the Christmas tree, all families eat together during noche buena.
All people must require buying gifts for their families.

Christmas is not complete without exchanging gifts and parties. Christmas tree, lights and lantern must be decorated at home and anywhere.

Are you happy and contented if you have all the gifts, parties and decorations?

Well, the most important thing for you to know is that peaceful in mind. Do not worry if you have no gift to give or you can not attend parties because all of that is non-sense or a waste of time if only the trouble in mind will prevail and you have enemy.

Celebrate Christmas simply by saying greetings to your loved ones, husband, parents, brother, sisters, relatives and friends. Eat together with your family.

Do not spend too much money because it is not the real meaning of Christmas. Give love on Christmas day it is not all about gift giving, spending your entire bonus however, it is all about how you spend time with your family.

On the other hand, sometimes some of your family is not coming home at Christmas day, all you have to do is pray for them that they have wonderful Christmas like yours and spend the rest of your time of who are presents with you now.

Everybody is affected if you are lonely or sad if you wish to celebrate a wonderful Christmas day, be happy  to

say MERRY CHRISTMAS! The spirit of Christmas is in your good heart!

GOD BLESS FOR THOSE WHO BELIEVE AND GIVE LOVE OF EACH OTHER.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERY ONE!



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A True Measure of Family Success- Stays Together both in Happy and Sad Times

There are occasions that families, relatives and friends are having reunited again like birthdays, weddings, an and fiesta.

 It is called “happy moments”. Being reunited with families allows you to share your feelings with them, to say “you are not alone”.

Here are the examples of a true measure of family that stays together;

 I am 100% Filipino and I love my country Philippines I am proud to be Pinoy because no matter how poor the Filipinos are; we are always being together both in happy and sad times.

Not at all occasions can make you feel happy because there are times when sadness comes to you. A good current example is when we are hit by a typhoon called ONDOY “Ketsana”. Filipinos are helping one another to survive the calamities.

 It is really wonderful to feel that in times of tragedy; Filipino families stay together all the times especially in difficult moments.  

This is a true meaning of family that everyone has responsibility to each one of us because in God’s eye we are all brothers and sisters.



And also I would like to say my personal thanks to all the country around the whole world for helping Philippines in times of tragedies. God speed to all of you! We are a big one family and let us make a peaceful world!

In summary, below are some strong traits that you can implement to strengthen the family ties;

Pray together

If possible all the members of the family should go to church together to make the bonding so strong because God is always as the center in the family.

Eat together

It is very nice to eat together because this is the time to share your experiences, achievements and tell your loved ones what makes them proud of.

Play to get together

If there is a vacation, bring the whole family. You can spend less on vacations by simply
going to local beaches than going to expensive places like in Palawan.

This place is one of the most wonderful spots to see in the Philippines. If you lived in Palawan then you are so lucky to have your wonderful place.

Have time to talk together Share thoughts like problems 

Ttalking and discussion is very important. It has been observed that the more time the family members are talking with each other they became close and understand their needs better.


The secret word to family success is to stay and act "TOGETHER".
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How to Find True Happiness in Many Ways

There is no such thing poor or rich in this world if we care and think of other’s need. God commands us to love one another and share blessings. 

It is he who makes and provides every thing for our daily needs and there are no excuses for us to reason out, that each one of us has no responsibility to help others.

It is quite difficult to give other’s food even to feed with your dogs; it is conflict to your decisions to give. Yet, the more you give the more happiness will come into your life. 

It is the bad side of your mind and feelings to affirm not to give, those negative wants to fight the positive attitude. And so, to achieve true happiness you must do the right thing.

Here are do’s and don’ts tips and ways on how to find true happiness;

Donts;

Self-Centered

Always think of your own needs. If you experience financial problems you blame others for your own advantages. 

Example; You work in a company crisis comes then the company need to implement costs cutting and need to terminate some of the employees. And the cause of the costs cutting is because of your scam. You stole money from the company. Do you think it is equal?

Pessimistic mind
Always expect worst and hopeless in every thing he/she do. Example; you are looking for a job hunting. Unfortunately many times you tried but you still didn’t find a job, in your situation you feel disappointed and failure and in that negative affirmation in your mind can cause stress and therefore you surrender. Do you think this choice of yours is the best answer?

Jealousy| Envy

Comparing the way of living to your neighbors, friends and family is the worst decision ever made. Discontented can cause all the troubles. It is because no matter what happen you do every thing to level up yourself from others. 

Example; One of your sister bought a motorcycle, and because of envy you want to buy also even though you can not afford. And so, you do your best as you can to have like what your sister has. You are going to lend money, but the problem is how can you pay the money back? Your income is still not enough for your children’s basic needs. Is it fair to run away your debt?

Bully

Doing something that can hurt a person’s feelings especially when can him/her cry. You are laughing when you bully, but the truth is your heart is full of anger and hatred. If somebody tells you that you are so fat and black? Are you hurt?

Worry

Losing of trust in one’s self and to others is a sign of worry.

Do’s 

Share

Allow your neighbors and the rest of your family members to borrow and use your things.

Give

Offer your extra blessings to someone’s in need especially the basic needs the food, clothing and shelter.

Thoughtful

Express concerns of other’s need. Understand the needs of others and help to solve their problems.

Give smile
Always do things that can make people happy just to give your smile.

Give love and respect to your parents

Spend your time with them. Cook for them and eat your meals with your parents.

Love your husband and wife

Marriage is divine and it needs to give value. For better or worse till death do they part and though there are times couple fights each others decisions and rights but that doesn’t mean they have no love at all.

Fear God

He is the only over all master. Every event that will happen in our lives is God’s purpose. And so, you must spend time to report what is going to do and ask for forgiveness for the job you missed.

Last updated June 04, 2012

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