There is no such thing poor or rich in this world if we care
and think of other’s need. God commands us to love one another and share
blessings.
It is he who makes and provides every thing for our daily needs and
there are no excuses for us to reason out, that each one of us has no
responsibility to help others.
It is quite difficult to give other’s food even to feed with
your dogs; it is conflict to your decisions to give. Yet, the more you give the
more happiness will come into your life.
It is the bad side of your mind and
feelings to affirm not to give, those negative wants to fight the positive
attitude. And so, to achieve true happiness you must do the right
thing.
Here are do’s and don’ts tips and ways on how to find true
happiness;
Donts;
Self-Centered
Always think of your own needs. If you experience financial
problems you blame others for your own advantages.
Example; You work in a
company crisis comes then the company need to implement costs cutting and need
to terminate some of the employees. And the cause of the costs cutting is
because of your scam. You stole money from the company. Do you think it is
equal?
Pessimistic mindAlways expect worst and hopeless in every thing he/she do. Example; you are looking for a job hunting. Unfortunately many times you tried but you still didn’t find a job, in your situation you feel disappointed and failure and in that negative affirmation in your mind can cause stress and therefore you surrender. Do you think this choice of yours is the best answer?
Jealousy| Envy
Comparing the way of living to your neighbors, friends and
family is the worst decision ever made. Discontented can cause all the
troubles. It is because no matter what happen you do every thing to level up
yourself from others.
Example; One of your sister bought a motorcycle, and
because of envy you want to buy also even though you can not afford. And so, you
do your best as you can to have like what your sister has. You are going to
lend money, but the problem is how can you pay the money back? Your income is
still not enough for your children’s basic needs. Is it fair to run away your debt?
Bully
Doing something that can hurt a person’s feelings especially
when can him/her cry. You are laughing when you bully, but the truth is your
heart is full of anger and hatred. If somebody tells you that you are so fat
and black? Are you hurt?
Worry
Losing of trust in one’s self and to others is a sign of
worry.
Do’s
Share
Allow your neighbors and the rest of your family members to
borrow and use your things.
Give
Offer your extra blessings to someone’s in need especially
the basic needs the food, clothing and shelter.
Thoughtful
Thoughtful
Express concerns of other’s need. Understand the needs of
others and help to solve their problems.
Give smile
Always do things that can make people happy just to give your smile.
Give love and respect to your parents
Always do things that can make people happy just to give your smile.
Give love and respect to your parents
Spend your time with them. Cook for them and eat your meals
with your parents.
Love your husband and wife
Marriage is divine and it needs to give value. For better or
worse till death do they part and though there are times couple fights each
others decisions and rights but that doesn’t mean they have no love at all.
Fear God
He is the only over all master. Every event that will happen
in our lives is God’s purpose. And so, you must spend time to report what is
going to do and ask for forgiveness for the job you missed.
Last updated June
04, 2012
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