Friday, August 21, 2009

How do you Define True Success in Life

To be contented with what you have is the end measurement of success in life. Even if you are poor you must be happy, life must go on and dream.

You must count on your blessings and never count all the insecurities. To feel insecure is a weakness and if you use it, life will become miserable.

To prevent this bad feeling, you must not compare yourself to others, not get jealous and don’t fight. Some others say that, to have a lot of money and power is what you will become successful; well it is 50% true and 50% lie it means that there must a balance.

If you want to have the 100% true success with your money, you must share your blessings to those who are in need.

If you’re just hiding your wealth in the bank, this is not at all good instead giving it to your family and buys some important things for your own that makes you happy. And remember, Contentment, Sharing and Happiness is how you define true success in life.

However keep in mind that success is relative. Success for a specific person does not translate to success to another.

It is why to be contented with what you have is essential if you want attaining success to be as easy as breathing.

Some persons are defining success as different from happiness. While this is true, the ultimate goal is to associate your happiness with success.

Success is nothing if you are not happy, or happiness is nothing without success. These two should go together. How to do this is very simple:

Plan your life

Make you want to accomplish things that will make you happy. Do not include in your goals those things that won't make you happy.

Start working for these plans

You noticed that once you have accomplished something in your goal, you have an intense feeling of success and happiness.

Once all your objectives are accomplished, repeat the planning phase

And then you have unlimited supply of happiness and success, accomplishing these things will give you a strong sense of purpose in your life.

Lastly sharing is the most important element in success and happiness. If you have seen the movie "Into the Wild" which is true story of a loner man that lives in the deep jungle away from all distractions and people.

Before he died due to accidental food poisoning from eating a wild vegetable, he wrote something in his notes: "Happiness is not real unless it is shared.." It is why you need to share your blessings, then you have real success and happiness.
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Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Be a Full Time House Wife is a Great Honor

I am a wife but not yet a mother and planning to have children someday; for now we focus on stabilizing our financial asset to give our children a bright future and for it’s also the good of the nation.

In today’s modern generation; the responsibility of a wife is not really as important as before. Husband and wife can easily work either in private or in public company because they’re both capable to work. We have all freedom.

But if when you are married, husband and wife have different roles in the family.  

Wife as a “house wife”, takes care of husband and children while the husband is the bread winner, head of the family and role model for their children.

It’s good for a wife to help husband’s livelihood but not making a full time job...

Make your Husband proud of you:

1. Take proper good cares for your husband and children.

2. Always give your 100% full support to your husband.

3. Appreciate him of all his doings and projects either small or big.

4. Show all the respect to your husband rights how he leads as a head of the family.

5. Always tell him I love you, hug and give your sweetest smile.

6. Make him always feels that you need him all the time.

7. Show him that being a full time wife is a great honor.

8. Always remind your husband that prayer is big power to every trial encountered.

9. Always give thanks for all the blessing you have received.

10. Always reminds that God is the center of the family.

I hope I can touch one’s heart of every woman and become a proud wife in the world. I gathered all of these from my experiences to my families, relatives, friends and reading a book. See to be a housewife is a great honor. And it’s time for a challenge…

God Bless Every one!
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